Hah! It wasn’t Karissa. “It’s been going on for so many years…” Not that I would, but I couldn’t say that about Karissa, we have known each other a few years, but not SO MANY YEARS.

Plus, I made a conscious effort to not name any names so if you did ever guess who the person is, I’d delete it.

Don’t be naive about this. I know it’s hard to believe that some people truly and consciously wish misery on others, but they’re do exist. Seriously, it took many frenemies, and much time to realize that they do know what they are doing. Whoever you are talking about in the above post, that person KNOWS exactly what they are doing. It isn’t subconscious, they’d just like you to think that so that they can keep up with it.

You have got to read Nasty People, by Jay Carter. It is such a great book, fast read too. Get it at your local library if you don’t want to buy it.

I found that I had more than one friend who was a frenemy. Karissa definitely doesn’t sound like a real friend to you.

If she answers this post, watch what she says. If she insults me, then she probably is a frenemy.